Most Men Will Die with Their Dreams Still Inside Them
That’s the harsh truth.
Let me ask you:
If today was your last day, would you feel fulfilled?
Or full of regret?
I wouldn’t be fulfilled at all.
Yes, I’ve lived a good life.
46 years, mostly stress-free compared to others I know who’ve faced real hardship.
Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had my fair share of shit:
A collapsed lung, followed by a medical cock-up that had me wishing I was dead.
Relationship breakups so painful, they felt like the end of my world.
Car crashes that left me drenched in cold sweats for weeks.
And more things I can’t be arsed to list.
But overall?
I’ve been dealt a good hand.
Yet, I’m still unfulfilled.
I HAVE UNTAPPED POTENTIAL
And I’m guessing you might feel the same.
For me, I know that untapped potential is fighting to get out.
I’ve realised, especially these past few months, just how much impact the tools I’ve been creating for men can have.
When I help one guy, it’s not just him.
It’s everyone around him.
And even the people on his path ahead.
Think about it for a second:
If I helped you make the changes you know you need to make, how much better would life get?
Not just for you, but for your family, your friends, and the people you haven’t even met yet.
Regret Is Poison
But let’s moonwalk back to regret.
That word should send a shiver through your overworked, distracted brain.
Regret doesn’t slam you all at once.
It’s slow.
A quiet poison.
It seeps in every time you ignore the thing you know you should be doing.
Every excuse.
Every delay.
Every fear you let hold you back.
And then one day?
It’s too late.
Game over.
Ashes to ashes, dust to dust.
Here’s the irony:
You spent your life in some kind of box.
Worked in one. Lived in one. Looked at one all day.
And now, you’re in a wooden box.
Lowered into the ground as the people who cared about you stand there, weeping.
But here’s the real tragedy:
Will they ever know the potential you had?
The ideas you never acted on?
The things you could’ve achieved?
The life you could’ve created for them?
The Power of Brotherhood
Let’s lighten the mood.
On Wednesday night, I hosted the final mastermind call of 2024.
That’s nearly 50 calls this year.
Over 75 hours spent helping men get their shit together.
This one was special: a goal-setting session for 2025.
I took the guys through a snippet of my framework.
It’s simple, it works, and if I get time, I’ll gift it to you after Christmas via The Journal (if you’ve joined the list).
But one moment stood out.
I asked a guy, “What’s been your biggest win of 2024?”
Without hesitation, he said, “Joining The Network.”
I was floored.
I said thanks and appreciated his honesty.
But then I thought, this is why men need this group.
He’s in a better place now than when he joined.
More focused. More driven.
And here’s the fat organic cherry on top:
He’s just secured his first paying client in his new business.
Fucking massive strides for him.
This is what happens when you surround yourself with the right people.
Men who push you.
Challenge you.
Hold you accountable.
Most men don’t have that.
And that’s why they drift.
Chasing distractions.
Ignoring the real work.
And end up on their deathbed full of regret.
Rewrite Your Story
But here’s the good news:
You’re not dead yet.
There’s still time to rewrite your story.
Here’s what to think about over the holidays:
Ask yourself: What will I regret most if I don’t act on it now?
Write down one goal for 2025 that scares you but excites you.
Find your tribe: A group of men who’ll hold you accountable. If you don’t have one, join one.
(Shameless plug: The Network is waiting.)
Brotherhood matters.
No More Excuses
That guy’s answer on Wednesday reminded me why I do this.
Helping men move from stuck to thriving.
Winning the battles that life throws at us.
Getting on the right trajectory.
If he can do it, so can you.
So stop drifting.
Stop waiting.
Start doing.
Regret’s a brutal way to wake up.
The world needs strong men.
Be one of them.
Anthony
Director - Whole Man Academy
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