3 Months to Rewrite Your Life.
For the high-performing man who’s bored, frustrated, and sick of drifting.
This is where we reset the trajectory.
Stop pretending you’ve got it all handled.
You’ve been carrying the weight for years.
Providing. Fixing. Earning.
Keeping the wheels turning for everyone else.
And on the outside?
You look like you’ve got it sorted.
But inside?
There’s stress you never talk about.
A routine that’s slowly crushing your energy.
A voice in your head that says:
“Is this really it?”
You’re not broken.
You’re just exhausted… and done with pretending.
It’s time to stop drifting.
Time to take back control — on your terms.
Why Traditional Approaches Don’t Work
The Lone Wolf myth?
Sounds exciting, mysterious, and a bit stoic.
Do it all yourself.
No help. No handouts.
But let’s be honest — it’s exhausting.
And it’s bloody lonely.
You’ve probably tried the usual stuff:
A free course here.
A few podcasts there.
YouTube videos with a guy in a Lambo telling you to crush it.
But Monday rolls around…
and it’s still you, at the same fucking desk,
same distractions,
same frustration.
I’ve worked with hundreds of men like you — high-functioning but feeling flat.
Not failing.
Just quietly stuck.
What works?
→ Getting clear on what you actually want
→ Cutting through the noise
→ Taking consistent action
That’s it.
You don’t need a ten-year life plan.
You need your next move.
The one that breaks the cycle.
The one that gets you out of your head and into motion.
Let’s talk about the money.
Sure — it’s easy to stay in the “free” lane.
But here’s what the years have taught me:
Free doesn’t challenge you.
Free doesn’t hold you accountable.
Free doesn’t change your life.
When you invest in yourself, you get me in your corner —
A coach, strategist, and sounding board.
And when needed?
A straight-talking kick up the arse.
No ego stroking.
Just honest conversations and relentless, regular action.
This isn’t therapy or manifesting success.
This is grown-man transformation.
No pissing about.
No excuses.
Just results.
“I’m a Director of a law firm and have been working with Anthony and the WMA for several years.
Before we met I was confused, stressed, anxious, and my productivity was suffering at work.
Anthony has helped me to gain clarity, to work through issues and problem solve, to maintain a health work-life balance, and to ensure I focus on what’s really important to me.
My productivity and profitability at work has virtually doubled, and my home life is happy and secure.
Anthony helped me to develop new skills and insights that help me look after myself and those around me.”
- Charlie
What Battles Are You Fighting Every Week?
Let’s name it.
Because most men don’t.
You’re juggling work, family, pressure, and trying to stay sane — and it feels like something’s got to give.
You look confident in meetings, but deep down you’re waiting to be found out.
That creeping “I’m winging it” feeling? Yeah, you’re not alone.
You crave more than the rinse-and-repeat routine…
but have no clue where to start.
You’re chasing success — but sacrificing time with the people who matter most.
You’ve been carrying stress for years.
Not dealing with it — just managing it.
Telling yourself it’s “not that bad.”
Maybe your relationship’s on the rocks.
Maybe it’s already gone.
Either way, navigating that mess is draining more than you’ll admit.
You set goals — then beat yourself up when you fall short.
You’ve had big life changes thrown at you…
and now you’re questioning everything.
Worst part?
You feel like there’s no one you can really talk to about any of it.
How We Work Together
It’s a structured, no-nonsense process designed to get you moving again — with clarity, energy, and direction.
We work 1-to-1 over three months.
Just you and me — no group calls, no distractions.
Here’s how it goes:
1. Clarity First
We start with the big picture.
Where you are now.
What’s working.
What’s not.
And most importantly what you actually want.
(Not what you’ve been told you should want.)
2. Build the Blueprint
We create a simple, powerful plan around the four key areas of your life:
Direction (purpose, vision, decisions)
Success (career, finances, freedom)
Strength (energy, habits, mindset)
Connection (relationships, communication, support)
This becomes your personal roadmap — one you actually want to follow.
3. Take Relentless Action
Every session ends with clear, realistic action steps.
Not “maybe someday” ideas.
We move fast. We course-correct as needed.
You stay accountable. You stay in motion.
You’ll get:
✔ Six 1:1 coaching calls (60 mins each)
✔ Your Personal Blueprint to track progress
✔ Voice note/WhatsApp support between sessions
✔ Honest feedback.
✔ A proven process — and a coach who won’t let you hide.
You bring the honesty.
I’ll bring the strategy, clarity, and straight talk.
Together, we’ll get you unstuck and building a life that finally feels like yours again.
anthony astbury.
Coach and Consultant for Men Who Are Ready to Change
For some men, transformation isn’t a buzzword — it’s survival.
Since 2016, I’ve been in the trenches with men like you:
Driven. Intelligent. High-functioning.
But carrying silent struggles they never talk about.
My approach is simple:
No excuses. No filters. No off-limits topics.
Just real, straight-talking conversations that cut through the noise and get to the truth.
I help men uncover what’s actually holding them back —
The stuff they’ve buried.
The patterns they’re stuck in.
The pressure they’ve normalised for far too long.
Over the years, I’ve sat down with 100+ men from around the world.
Men with stories of resilience, failure, reinvention, and growth.
Their insights, and my own journey, shaped the Whole Man approach —
And gave me a toolbox of real-world strategies to guide you forward.
I’m not here to play guru.
I’m here to help you break the cycle, rebuild your confidence,
and become the clear-headed, driven version of yourself you know is in there.
Just honest work that gets real results.
If you’re done coasting…
and ready to get back in the driver’s seat —
I’m here when you are.
Ready to Get Started?
You don’t need more time.
You need a decision.
Because nothing changes until you do.
If what you’ve read resonates — then now’s the time to step forward.
The Progress Package
6 sessions over 3 months
For the man who’s ready to get back in control and start making real, lasting changes.
Six private coaching sessions via Zoom (1 hour each)
Flexible slots available — mornings, evenings, weekends
Sessions booked via your personal link and spread over 3 months
Includes invites to all Whole Man Academy and private Network events
Investment:
✅ £1,997 paid in full
✅ Or 3 x £679 monthly payments
The Advanced Package
Progress Package + Deep Dive Day
For the man who wants to go even deeper — fast.
Everything in the Progress Package
PLUS:A full-day (6-hour) 1:1 Deep Dive session (in-person or online)
We assess, plan, and build your future blueprint in one powerful day
Weekend sessions available
Includes invites to all Whole Man Academy and private Network events
Investment:
✅ £2,197 paid in full
✅ Or 3 x £749 monthly payments
🔒 Network Member Discount
If you’re already a member of The Network — you’ll receive 15% off any package.
Next Step:
Message me directly or click below to book a Clarity and Trajectory Call.
We’ll talk.
See if it’s the right fit.
And if it is — we’ll get to work.
Next Step: Book Your Clarity & Trajectory Call – £97
ou’re here for a reason.
You don’t need another week of “thinking about it.”
You need clarity, fast.
This 30-minute private call is designed to:
Cut through the noise and get to what’s really going on
Help you decide what you actually want
Show you what working together could look like
No pressure. Just real talk.
And if you go ahead with a coaching package, I’ll deduct the £97 from the total.
Still got a question? Email me here
Take the First Step Toward the Life You Actually Want.
For 3 months, I’ll be in your corner—your personal guide to help you overcome what’s been holding you back, set goals that actually matter, and keep you moving forward.
Stop waiting for things to change. Let’s make it happen together.